I was recently talking with a family member about dog training, and she shared with me something another trainer had told her: that a dog that is 100 percent trained is a dog whose spirit is broken. While I could not disagree with this statement more, it got me thinking- what exactly is a “trained” dog?
Like most ideas related to our dogs, if you ask five trainers the same question, you’ll get five different answers. To me, a trained dog is one that has been taught the expectations of her household. The rules will differ from house to house- some dogs are allowed on the furniture and some dogs aren’t; some dogs are allowed to give sloppy kisses and some aren’t- but whatever the expectations are, the trained dog meets them. She works hard to please her pack, and is rewarded with positive feedback and praise for her good behaviour. Her people are happy and so, in turn, is she. The trained dog is a happy dog.
Why a happy dog? First let’s consider the untrained dog’s life. Through no fault of her own she has failed to learn the rules of her pack. Instead of positive interactions with her people she is scolded and yelled at. But “getting into trouble” still gets her attention. She jumps up and nips at her people’s hands. She shreds the couch. She destroys the backyard. As she becomes more of a nuisance her pack wants less to do with her, and she gets ignored as well as yelled at. She spends more and more time alone, missing out on opportunities to learn better behaviour. She is lonely and confused. This is not a happy dog.
Compare that to the trained dog’s life. The trained dog has learned the rules of her house and what is expected from her. Life is full of loving voices and hands-on attention. She earns treats and toys and walks as “payment” for her good behaviour. She spends lots of time with her family because they enjoy being with her. She has an active social life; because of her good manners she gets to go for car rides, to the park, to the beach, maybe even invited along with her people to dinner parties. This is a happy dog.
As for a “100 percent trained” dog, what does that statement mean- that the dog is never able to think for herself? That would indeed be a dog whose spirit is broken! There will always be (and should be) an inherent “doggy-ness” about our pets; that’s why we love them. There will come a time (or times) when our dogs will make their own decisions, whether or not they coincide with our well-taught rules. After all, these are not robots we’re talking about, these are living, breathing, thinking beings. Even the most consistent, well-trained, obedient dog may decide that a particular squirrel is just too good to let pass. As I write this, I’m thinking of my own dog who recently decided that- even though she knows better- a piece of cheese left unattended on the coffee table was just too good an opportunity to let slide. My response when I came back into the room and caught her in the act? A firm NO, said at the same time as I ducked my head so she couldn’t see me laugh. She is, after all, still her own dog and has a way of reminding me of that every now and then.
We all know that the trained dog isn’t born that way. What our dogs see as acceptable behaviour and what we see as acceptable behaviour is rarely (if ever) the same. So it’s up to us to step into our roles as leaders and determine what the rules for our pack are going to be. Our dog’s happiness (and our own) depends on it.
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What Every Happy Dog Should Know
Christine Reynard
Downtown Dogs
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